Kamis, 12 Agustus 2010

probison physical punishment from parent to their child

PROBISION PHYSICAL PUNISHMENT FROM PARENT TO THEIR CHILD

Education is very important to child. But wrong education will change advantage to wickedness. For example the parents educate their child with hardness.
Firstly, when we teach Childs they will imitate what we do. If we do violence they will be violence, but if we teach with true education they wouldn’t be wrong education. Because in their age the period that to imitate. this condition is as same as with baby is white paper, if we write bad think, it will be there, but if we write the right think, exactly the right think will be there.
Secondly, physical punishment is similar with violence. It is very bad to child’s psychology, because it will be destroy their psychology, and noting advantage in the violence, there is only wickedness. This argument supported by Islam, because Islam teaches us without violence. it shows in habitual prophet Muhammad SAW.
Thirdly, Physical punishment will motivate child to dawling, because when we give physical punishment, child will revenge with dawling.it will be boomerang, because their purpose is our anger. If we are angry, they will be the winner in this psychology battle.
Fourthly, physical punishment can make child down. This condition will influence their achievement. because they think that we hates their, but the true is not, and it will be disturb their achievement.
Based the arguments the parents shouldn’t educate their child with physical punishment but the parents educate their child with good communication, but the punishment is necessary, to discipline a child.

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